Funeral costs

I haven't written an entry for a few days -- it's been a busy time, and I've been talking to a relative about a death that he's having to deal with.  I'm not really going to go into details, but there's some stuff that I think would be generally good for folks to be reminded of. 

Living wills are good for the folks you leave behind
I've talked at length about slaughter, and I've killed many critters myself.  I've said to myself, and to other people in my life, that I'd much rather go out with a bullet to the head by surprise than just about any other way. 

Right now I'm pretty sure that the last two weeks of my life are going to suck.  I'm in rude good health right now, and don't expect to go anytime soon, but so were these other people.   One was 47, the other was 51, and the third was in his 70s.  The first two died by surprise -- no idea it was coming. 

I'd really reccomend that you write down your wishes regarding how your care will be managed in the event of an incapacitating accident.  Forcing your loved ones to make the decision to pull the plug, well, frankly, it sucks.  And our current medical technology can keep parts of your body alive indefinitely, with no chance of recovery. 

So be kind to the people around you and make a living will.

Funeral expenses

One thing that happens when someone dies is that the people around them feel guilty that they died, and often assuage that guilt by buying an elaborate coffin, or service, or additional.   I'm all about ritual when it comes to important things, and if you have the money to spare, and it makes you feel better to do that, by all means, spend whatever you think is appropriate. 

But sometimes there's just not the extra money around, or spending the money would create a hardship on the living.   My uncle is a mortician, and I've spent some time "behind the curtain" so to speak, and I'm going to write up here what I've counseled my relatives on in the past regarding funeral expenses. 

The absolutely lowest cost is just not claiming the body from the county.   If you are truly at wits end as to how to pay for the body disposal, this is one choice. 

The second least expensive way is to have the body cremated.  A cremation typically runs between $600 and $800, and you pick up the cremains.  It's probably illegal to scatter the cremains, but I don't know how you'd be caught, and you can do a small service at the time that allows some closure for the people around. 
DO NOT pay for embalming the body, or a fancy casket, or for any other services.  It just costs more to burn the additional weight. 

If you loved one was a member of the armed forces, they may be entitled to a burial from the armed forces. 

With respect to burial, there is really no value in having a burial vault or other "protective" packaging around the body of your loved one.  We'll all be going back into the soil, and burial vaults and casket liners and concrete shields and so on are all a complicated way to extract money from you.  Let's just keep it simple, as nature intended and if you choose burial as the way you're going to go, skip all of this. 

I know, this isn't really farm related, but it's what I've been dealing with this last week, and I'm hoping that other people find it useful. 

Ray of Hope Fundraiser lunch, $10, Everett tommorow!

Don't forget the ray of hope fundraiser lunch.  It's $10, ribs and chicken and dessert and a soda, good cause, right off the freeway.    You'll find more about Pappa Kila and his work here. 


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The annual flood drill - Nov to Jan

The land that I farm is in the flood plain, the 100 year flood plain, to be specific.    That means that every 100 years the entire flood plain fills up with water.  But it doesn't mean that you're safe on any given year, because we've been having 100 year floods every 3 or 4 years recently. 

What it means to me is that I have to have on hand enough trailers and transportation to move all of my livestock off the island if the dike around the island fails, and I have to be able to do that in 4 to 6 hours.  The island fills in about 10 hours.  Once the island fills it's filled for 2 to 4 months, until they can pump the water out.  

So I spent part of the day today moving all of the implements that can't be underwater towards the road, and arranging them so that they'd be easily loaded, and then re-arranging the electric fences around the pig area so that I could more-easily herd the pigs. 

Next step is to make sure that all of the trailers are in working order, and that usually means a day or two of messing around with the lights and checking the tires and bearings for wear and tear. 

The long-range weather guesses for this year is that it'll be dryer than normal, but I've learned to be skeptical about long range forecasts.